I recently worked a small wedding in New Hampshire.  It was a second marriage for both the bride and the groom. Although the immediate feelings by them both was they've "done this before," they called me for guidance.  They referred to my book and phone consultations on planning their intimate gathering.  I attended the wedding and during the traditional toasts to friends and family, the bride made a toast to me!  I was shocked.  Tears were streaming down her face as well as mine.  It was one of the greatest compliments I've ever received as a wedding and event planner.  She and her husband were not overwhelmed by the many details involved with planning a wedding.  They created a mind map and a tickler file and referred to both on a daily basis.  And although they've "done this before" there were many things they had not remembered.  Also, the wedding coaching section in the beginning of the book helped them tremendously.  They had forgotten all the important things they needed to discuss before sharing a life together as husband and wife. Because they followed my book they were able to get through the many details quickly and had time to relax and enjoy the last few days before their wedding.  I'm still floating from this experience!