For religious ceremonies:
 *  The clergy at your place of worship
 *  Member or friend of the family
*  The clergy associated with your university, military base, or other affiliation
*  Unitarian Society
*  Society of Friends (Quaker tradition)
*  Recommendations from family and friends

For civil ceremonies:
 *  Justice of the Peace (www.findajp.com)
 *  American Humanist Association
 *  Elected official
 *  Official licensed to perform weddings (possibly a ship's captain)
 *  Recommendations from family and friends.